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Weekends are of course supposed to be fun and at least relaxing but, I don’t think I will be able to do either. My best friend, my “ace-boon-coon“, was planning to take my son and I to the ESPN zone. However, these past few days have not been like peaches and cream. Basically, my “ace-boon-coon” was having problems with her man/kids father, to a point where she was just totally stressed out. I offered her a little cool off time to chill with me that day and enjoy some “SPINACH” with me. She was supposed to come by my place and I waited a few hours for her. I realized she wasn’t going to come over when I called her mom looking for her. Her mother, the “Cat lady”, said that she was upstairs at another friends’ house. I continued to try to call her back like an hour or so later, but still no luck reaching her. I was slightly disappointed that she didn’t come through to taste some of the delightful “SPINACH” that I had. However, I totally understand that she is going through some problems at home and feels trapped and stressed out. She has 3 kids at home and she currently stays with her mother and her kids father. She gets stressed from the kids always calling for “mommy” and kids father, who is over protective and more. As her best friend, she tell me a lot and confides in me at times so, my personal opinion of her kids father is that he is selfish and stingy. He is selfish because he gets mad that she has a best friend and he doesn’t, which is what she told me. Then he is stingy because, he doesn’t want to share her with anybody and also is stingy with other item$. Well I try to help her as much as possible, like when she needs money,food, or just to talk to someone. My heart was aching for her these last few days because of all the stress that she was in. She says she feels like running away and never coming back. I know how it is to have a man that doesn’t really help you clean and leaves a lot of work for you to do. For the most part, I do feel that he loves her in some way and needs her in his life. However, I believe all the ladies can relate to me when I say that “Men don’t realize how much they need us until we are gone”. Well I personally have started to feel like my “ace-boon-coon” is avoiding me and I feel a little hurt and don’t really understand. I feel like saying…”What did I do wrong?” . Well I feel like I should give her some space and some time to settle her issues. This is why my plans with her might be canceled today. So sad….anyone have some thoughts or advice? I would like to hear it.