mslovely101

Well nothing really makes my weekend like finding out my love of my life was cheating on me or in other words~ talking to someone else. I was crushed. I gave him all my love and all my time.To find out he was hiding something from me and talking to someone else for like 2 months, is truly heartbreaking. Why would he do this to me I asked myself. What did I do wrong? Or what didn’t I do? The answer to this is nothing. I did everything I could possibly do for him, everything! I was all the woman he ever needed in our bedroom and the total freak of his dreams. I cooked, cleaned, and made him feel like a king. Meanwhile, when I got pregnant and didn’t really know it, he was obviously interested in some 18 year old conversation. I was so upset that I took all his shit to his mom’s. Excuse the language but ladies..you gotta feel me on a cheating a$$ man! It makes you so mad you just start bubbling inside. I cried my eyes out until I couldn’t cry anymore. My sadness and tears turned into anger and frustration very quickly. Well you might be asking yourself well how did she find out. I found out because he got arrested and the cop had to give me his phone na other belongings. The officer gave me his stuff and I signed some paper for it. I started looking through his phone, since I knew this would be the only chance I ever got to do so. I browsed his text messages and a girl named Tiff sent him a message saying, ” I’m bored and I miss you”. I was shocked and angry but, my friend who was there with me at the time said, ” Wait, calm down. Text back to make sure you are not mistaken”. I sent Tiff a text using my boyfriends’ phone saying, “whats up”. I also sent another message saying,”I’m Horny”. Then she responded back saying, “Me too haven’t done it in a while…etc”. This is how I found out that he is a cheating bastard. after this I called her from his phone and let her know I was his girlfriend. I calmed down enough to talk to her and she said the following based on a few questions that I asked her:
1- She was 18 years old.
2- Has been with him for about two months.
3- She has a daughter.
4- Said that my man told her, “He just came out of a long term relationship, so he just wanted to take it slow”.
5- They never had sexual intercourse.

After hearing all this of course I was furious. I was mad at the fact that he was in jail so I couldn’t kick his as for myself. I wanted to cut his dumb ass of blacken his eyes. I just wanted to hurt him as bad as he hurt me. I felt that If he could do that to me then he never cared about me. It hurt even more thinking about all the times when I felt like the love was slipping away and that we were drifting apart. Recently, we had hardly any problems and I thought we were both happy. I thought we were happy and chilling despite the unfortunate miscarriage that I had. The two months that I was bleeding from a miscarriage he was talking to her. Now when he finally got out from central booking or whatever….he came and knocked on my door . I wouldn’t let him in and I told him all his shit was at his mothers house. He was banging on my door pleading to talk to me and discuss the situation.I told him to go talk to that sl*t. He obviously tried to hide near my door so that when I opened it he would be there. Unfortunately for him cops were patroling my building and they knocked on my door and asked me if I knew this person.I said that I knew him of course, but I told them that I didn’t wish to talk to him because he is a lying sack of sh*t. The cops gave me a look like they couldn’t believe what I just said. They told him to go away right now and If I wanted to talk to him later then ok. He is so lucky that they got to him instead of me because I told him I would have cut him….seriously . That bastard had me so mad and heartbroken. When we actually did talk, he kept denying the whole thing and telling me all kinds of lies and bull that didn’t make clear sense. He told me lies for 2 days almost 3 until I took some wise womens’ advice and told him that I wanted the truth and some questions answered OR we are totally over and thats it. So finally he confessed to everything. I was so upset and all I really wanted was the truth instead of him lying to me and trying to turn shit around on me. Excuse my language, but he tried to blame everyone else for this problem except for hiself. Unfu*king believable.
Well let me tell you what this wise and cool older lady told me. She said she knew or found out her husband was cheating and knew where he was. She went to the lady who was in the same building and knocked on her door and said, “Tell me husband to come here”. She pulled her husband out of there and told the mistress, ” I know you sleep with other people’s husbands, but this is my man and I am not the one!”. I wondered to myself why she didn’t do more or something else. Then she told me that she was not going to give her man up that easily. They were married so she took those vows seriously. She really enlightened me with her story. So right now, my boyfriend or whatever (Because he doesn’t deserve that title) has a lot to make up for. He has to treat me and give me gifts and more. I also have the right to search his phone from now on as much as I like and anything else I feel like. Any bullshit from him and he is out the door. Like they say, ” Don’t let the door knob hit’cha where the good lord split’cha”. LMAO.