mslovely101

MY BOYFRIEND HAS BASICALLY TOLD ME NOT TO VISIT MY BEST FRIEND ANYMORE.I AM VERY SAD. MY BOYFRIEND DIDN’T EVEN TRY TO UNDERSTAND.ALL HE KNOWS IS WHAT HIS EXPERIENCE IN LIFE HAS TAUGHT HIM, WHICH IS TO MIND YOUR BUSINESS. HE HAS BEEN STABBED IN THE BACK BY PLENTY OF SO-CALLED “FRIENDS”.I WANT TO BE THERE FOR MY FRIEND AS SHE WAS THERE FOR ME.I DON’T KNOW WHAT I’M GOING TO DO. MY BOYFRIEND SAYS THAT MY FRIEND SHOULD MAKE HER OWN DECISIONS, WHICH SHE DOES! BUT WHEN I TRIED TO EXPLAIN THIS TO HIM HE SEEMED AS IF HE JUST REFUSED TO UNDERSTAND. I STARTED TO CRY AFTER A WHILE BECAUSE THE CONVERSATION GOT VERY HEATED.

MY BEST FRIEND IS HAVING A HARD TIME WITH HER MAN/ KIDS FATHER.HE IS NOT SUPPORTIVE OF THE THINGS SHE WANTS TO DO. HE IS LIKE TRYING TO KEEP HER BAREFOOT AND PREGNANT. SO THEY ARGUE. THEN HE DISRESPECTS HER IN FRONT OF PEOPLE SO THEY ARGUE. THEN HE ACTS LIKE HE DISLIKES ME BUT THEN MAKES SEXIST SLURS IN THE FORM A JOKE TOWARDS ME.

HAS ANYONE ELSE GONE THROUGH THIS??WHAT CAN YOU DO NOT TO LOSE YOUR BEST FRIEND?